Hurry up and wait

Posted Monday, October 12, 2009 11:43 AM

Things for the wedding are at a stand still. We have only $100 in our wedding fund and with neither of us working there is no extra money to put there. I did get to go spend the weekend with Kevin, and it was so nice to be together, in what could possibly be our future home for a while. Being able to go to the commissary together and plan dinners, then get to sit down together, I cooked and he did the dishes! It is those little glimpses of what our future will be like.

 Kevin did meet my mom last weekend because he came to visit for the week and I ended up having to have my gall bladder removed. Things went decently, there were no casualties, but I know  the my mom still doesn't like it and she isn't trying very hard to cover up that fact. Upside is that he gets to meet my dad this weekend who is coming out to visit me this weekend!

I am going to have to push my parents to figure out when I am coming home for Christmas so that I can get back with the venue I am going to visit. If Kevin and I have a job I am hoping that I can get enough and put a deposit for November. I am pretty sure that this will be the safest bet unless his old job can hire him back sooner than April. (All these military contracts and stuff it is a very wait and see thing even though he is no longer IN the military, very frustrating sometimes!)