I've Done It

Posted Sunday, November 18, 2007 3:17 PM

I’ve finally done it or, actually, found out that I’ve done it.  I was talking to the girl who introduced my fiancé and I the other night, and she let me know that I had officially committed the most common wedding crime of all.  I have pissed off one of my friends because she is not one of my bridesmaids. 

I understand why she’s upset; I was one of her bridesmaids.  To tell the truth, I was actually somewhat shocked when she called me to ask me to be one of her bridesmaids as we hadn’t talked for several months before her engagement.  We live less than 200 miles away from each other, but we haven’t really seen each other that often.  Don’t get me wrong, I was honored to be in her bridal party, and a fun time was had by all.

For our wedding, I wanted to keep the bridal party on the “normal” side, which to me meant three or four girls.  My two sisters were obvious choices, and apparently we made a pact during my sister’s wedding planning, so I didn’t even have to make the awful choice of who would be the maid of honor.  This left two spots open.  One of those had to be filled by my college roommate who I continued to live with until she left for law school three years later.  Which meant that the last spot was left for my one of my best friends that I met on the first day of college, and we’ve been friends and pseudo-roommates ever since.

Obviously (maybe not to everyone), having an angry friend is not the happiest situation to think about, so my plan is to not talk about it.  Surely if I ignore the problem it will go away, or at least I will make myself believe so.  Maybe my hurt friend will read this blog and know that I mean her and that I did not mean to hurt her.  Let’s hope so.

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