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Casadena
04/3/25 5:15PM

Dear Prudence, I resent one of my very closest friends for not voting in the 2024 presidential election. He said he did it because he never… Read more

04/3/25 5:15PM
Thursday Prudie Day
CharmedPam
04/3/25 2:43PM

Hi. I’m going to arrive to work late, spend some time on my nails, eat a 1.5 hour lunch AND still go to my doctors appt and bank at 3. I … Read more

04/3/25 2:43PM
Feels like not your business
Casadena
04/3/25 5:13PM

Dear Prudence,  My girlfriend had to have gallbladder surgery several months ago and enjoys showing off her scar to just about anyone she … Read more

04/3/25 5:13PM
Your sis is ridiculous
Casadena
04/3/25 5:19PM

Dear Prudence,  My sister and I have five girls between us. She has four and I have one, “Susan.” We always had low-key family birthda… Read more

04/3/25 5:19PM
This has to be MUD
Casadena
04/3/25 5:20PM

Dear Prudence,  I’m in my mid-30s and I have a good friend in her early 20s that I’ll call “Mia.” Mia is an incredibly smart, swee… Read more

04/3/25 5:20PM
own up to it and apologize
Casadena
04/3/25 5:28PM

Dear Prudence,  My brother was eavesdropping on my mother and me. He overheard some hurtful but true things about him. Now he has repeated… Read more

04/3/25 5:28PM
Find a new therapist
Casadena
04/3/25 5:29PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been seeing a therapist for two years. The first year was fine. But now that we’re in our second year, I’m findin… Read more

04/3/25 5:29PM
Leave your relationship, you're cheating
Casadena
04/3/25 5:34PM

Dear Prudence, I am a 45-year-old woman in a stable relationship (I have been living together with my partner for four years), but I fell i… Read more

04/3/25 5:34PM
YOU make the choice, not your BF
Casadena
04/3/25 5:33PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend has been helping me set boundaries with my overbearing mom. This includes ending conversations and meetings whe… Read more

04/3/25 5:33PM
leave him alone
Casadena
04/3/25 5:29PM

Dear Prudence, Several decades ago, my younger brother cut off ties with most of our family. I don’t entirely respect or understand his r… Read more

04/3/25 5:29PM
Nope nope nope
Casadena
04/3/25 5:17PM

Dear Prudence,  After recently splitting with my wife, I moved into an apartment in a six-unit apartment building. The day I moved in, a n… Read more

04/3/25 5:17PM
Just say no
Casadena
04/3/25 5:06PM

Dear Prudence, Can you offer me some polite and considerate boundary statements to use when declining an offer to stay at someone’s home … Read more

04/3/25 5:06PM
You are not politics, go if you want to
Casadena
04/3/25 5:18PM

Dear Prudence,  What’s the current etiquette for accepting wedding invitations when you’re transgender? I’m a trans person in a red … Read more

04/3/25 5:18PM
Did she even ask for advice?
Casadena
04/3/25 5:08PM

Dear Prudence, I’m reaching out because I’m in a tricky situation involving two people I’ve mentored within feminist circles. For con… Read more

04/3/25 5:08PM
love money or hate dogs more?
Casadena
04/3/25 5:36PM

Dear Prudence, My 98-year-old great aunt, “Gemma,” is in failing health and doesn’t have much time left. She never had children, but … Read more

04/3/25 5:36PM
We can't decide for you
Casadena
04/3/25 5:13PM

Dear Prudence,  As a regular reader of your advice, I’ve seen so many excellent answers about what to do within a family when there are … Read more

04/3/25 5:13PM
You dont' have to be around him
Casadena
04/3/25 5:10PM

Dear Prudence,  Ten years ago, I met my now husband, “Charles.” At the time, he was part of your typical nuclear American family. He … Read more

04/3/25 5:10PM
You can't let her move in
Casadena
04/3/25 5:05PM

Dear Prudence, I own a two-bedroom house. My sister and her 6-year-old are currently in a shelter after a violent incident with her latest … Read more

04/3/25 5:05PM
Tell her no
Casadena
04/3/25 5:30PM

Dear Prudence, How do I tell someone they can’t be in my prom group? I am a senior and this will be my last prom. Right now, my prom grou… Read more

04/3/25 5:30PM
Hump Day
ei34
04/2/25 1:33PM

How's everyone today? Read more

04/2/25 1:33PM
Tuesday, blech
VarunaTT
04/1/25 2:22PM

I've been learning how the civil court system works in Cook County, IL and whoa.  It's simultaneously incredibly organized, but also a laby… Read more

04/1/25 2:22PM
Just another manic Monday
VarunaTT
03/31/25 2:33PM

I woke up this morning to a text from the utility company.  They're warning to expect power outages on Wednesday, b/c they're messing with … Read more

03/31/25 2:33PM
Welcome to new member
knottie31e7716e4d49714c
04/1/25 12:15PM

Hello Everyone, I’m new to this forum community, and I’m really excited to be here! I’m hoping to learn a lot of new things from this … Read more

04/1/25 12:15PM
Fri-yay
ei34
03/28/25 1:20PM

We made it!  Hope that everyone has some downtime moments this weekend! Read more

03/28/25 1:20PM

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FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

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11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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