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Hump Day
ei34
03/27/24 12:45PM

Phew. I'm having a crummy stretch.  Thankful for the upcoming long weekend (Good Friday and Easter Monday) and looking forward to celebrati… Read more

03/27/24 12:45PM
You don't have to tell anyone.
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:28PM

Dear Prudence, I am a British man of West African extraction, living in the eastern United States. I am reasonably educated and not impover… Read more

03/27/24 4:28PM
It hurts, but you're not wrong. Keep your bou…
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:27PM

Dear Prudence, I am a stay-at-home mom. I was taking care of my toddler nephew and his two older half-brothers for my brother and his girlf… Read more

03/27/24 4:27PM
Keep saying 'no'.
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:31PM

Dear Prudence, My brother is your typical basement dwelling neckbeard. He has mental and emotional problems that prevent him from actually … Read more

03/27/24 4:31PM
Plan the honeymoon for ASAP and start trying …
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, I am a cis female in my early 30s married to an incredible partner (cis man in his early 40s). We have been married for abou… Read more

03/27/24 4:36PM
Do not try to play fixer-upper-matchmaker for…
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:39PM

Dear Prudence, My brother is a 38-year-old, heterosexual male who has never dated. He is very private so trying to discuss this in person i… Read more

03/27/24 4:39PM
You don't need to stop, he needs to actually …
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:25PM

Dear Prudence,  How do I stop complaining about my in-laws to my husband? Don’t get me wrong: They’re amazing people. On one hand, the… Read more

03/27/24 4:25PM
Avoidance isn't working. Time to change tact…
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:23PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been divorced from my ex-husband for nearly 10 years now, much longer than we were married. I feel happy and confiden… Read more

03/27/24 4:23PM
Yes, you should tell him and explain it wasn'…
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:34PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a 50-year-old woman. My boyfriend George and I have been dating casually for over two years and became exclusive at th… Read more

03/27/24 4:34PM
Figure out how to be supportive without weigh…
mrsconn23
03/27/24 4:32PM

Dear Prudence, About six years ago, my best friend from childhood, “B,” got married. We were in our mid-twenties, and there was somethi… Read more

03/27/24 4:32PM
knottie782d218c3da35b47
03/25/24 1:06AM

Hi there!  I ordered my invitations through the knot and I want to get the matching envelopes. I am just a bit confused as to what to do a… Read more

03/25/24 1:06AM
Tuesday
VarunaTT
03/26/24 1:44PM

I wish I knew what was wrong with my eyeballs.  I'm having so much light sensitivity in the mornings. Downing coffee and water in equal par… Read more

03/26/24 1:44PM
Monday
ei34
03/25/24 1:45PM

How was everyone’s weekend? Sending all of the quick / painless work week vibes! Read more

03/25/24 1:45PM
OMG, do not look up his number.
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:22PM

Dear Prudence, My question concerns asking someone out on a date. I (50s gay man) work at a food pantry that has regular clients who can co… Read more

03/22/24 3:22PM
EARLY CEREMONY
knottie5fe76f5fe80925de
03/25/24 9:50PM

Hi!  I need help planning and coming up with ideas.  I am looking to have a ceremony only. My guest list is 50 people max and I estimate … Read more

03/25/24 9:50PM
Tipping Etiquette for B&B
levioosa
03/25/24 2:58PM

This is our first time staying in one. Do you tip for your stay? I know in general you don’t tip owners of businesses but I’m thrown off… Read more

03/25/24 2:58PM
Maid of Honor
homrockyj
03/24/24 2:28PM

Resolved and deleted for privacy. Read more

03/24/24 2:28PM
Download guest list
knottie84622450a4baaa4e
03/24/24 8:55PM

I am trying to download my guest list but it is not working. Has anyone had this problem and know how to solve this? I have many guest's and… Read more

03/24/24 8:55PM
Fri-yay
ei34
03/22/24 1:14PM

Finally!  How's everyone?  Hoping there are moments of relaxation or joy planned for all! Read more

03/22/24 1:14PM
Kate-gate
mrsconn23
03/22/24 7:20PM

If you didn't see, Kate announced in a video today that she was diagnosed with (undisclosed, and not our business) cancer.  I admit I enjo… Read more

03/22/24 7:20PM
I don't think there is much you can do.
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:20PM

Dear Prudence, My sister has been miserable since she had her baby two years ago. My brother-in-law works too much, but they don’t have e… Read more

03/22/24 3:20PM
fake, fake, fakey, fake
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:23PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend is a filmmaker and an artistic genius! I believe he is a great talent and that someday he’ll be a star Hollyw… Read more

03/22/24 3:23PM
I don't think you can help Annie without the …
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:28PM

Dear Prudence, I was the invisible child growing up, between my sister the delinquent and my brother, who was severely brain-damaged at bir… Read more

03/22/24 3:28PM
Is she a friend or a charity case you're star…
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:27PM

Dear Prudence, I have a close friend whom I’ve known for about a decade (we’re in our mid-30s). She’s married to a guy in the armed f… Read more

03/22/24 3:27PM
Take the money and find a way to help your si…
mrsconn23
03/22/24 3:30PM

Dear Prudence, I’m almost 18 and graduating high school this spring. My grandparents (father’s parents) just told me they have almost $… Read more

03/22/24 3:30PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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