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Do you really miss her?
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:23PM

Dear Prudence, I need advice on how to reconnect with my formerly estranged daughter. The two of us fell out badly in 2016, when I could no… Read more

04/25/24 3:23PM
Interact with Denise as little as possible if…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:52PM

Dear Prudence, “Clare” is the daughter of my mother’s best friend. We basically grew up together. Clare and my brother dated on and o… Read more

04/25/24 4:52PM
I'd fulfill my MOH duties and then let her de…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:44PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend has been sucked into a bad relationship. And it’s making it very hard to stay close to her. When she met hi… Read more

04/25/24 4:44PM
Instead of dropping the reins, you should lea…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:45PM

Dear Prudence, I have been in my stepkids’ lives for a decade. They are currently 19 and 17. I am tired of being screamed at for overstep… Read more

04/25/24 4:45PM
You need to rip the bandaid off and tell him.
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:47PM

Dear Prudence, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year. He is kind, sweet, understanding, and my best friend. We a… Read more

04/25/24 4:47PM
Tell your SIL, but no one has to follow her b…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:28PM

Dear Prudence,  My oldest niece has been going to school in New York, and will be starting her second semester this spring. Since my husba… Read more

04/25/24 3:28PM
Yes. Leave. For you and your child.
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:29PM

Dear Prudence, I am on maternity leave. I am not a stay-at-home spouse. I am getting paid in full right now and I make more than my husband… Read more

04/25/24 3:29PM
Thursday
Casadena
04/25/24 2:06PM

Getting the chat started for Friday Eve - hopefully prudie today! Read more

04/25/24 2:06PM
It's up to you to respect your boundaries and…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:26PM

Dear Prudence, Let me first start by saying my husband and I have a very solid relationship and I feel very fortunate to have a loving and … Read more

04/25/24 3:26PM
Research rescues ASAP
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:07PM

Dear Prudence, Six months ago, my neighbors got evicted from their rental property and begged me to take in their two dogs. The dogs are hy… Read more

04/25/24 3:07PM
Kids (and exH) vs. new BF: Wedding version
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:11PM

Dear Prudence, I got divorced when my two kids were in high school, after I finished my degree. It was very horrible because my ex was an e… Read more

04/25/24 3:11PM
Busy Wednesday
Casadena
04/24/24 2:49PM

Back and it's a crazy day! Read more

04/24/24 2:49PM
Ivory or White? Help!
knottie1f6510d375d29cfa
04/25/24 5:17PM

I’m sure I’m not the first person to deal with the dilemma of groomsmen wearing white or ivory shirts but I need help! My fiancé and I�… Read more

04/25/24 5:17PM
Should I go to college or try to be 'discover…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:50PM

Dear Prudence,I obviously want to go to college (I think) and want to obtain a career that will keep me stable in the future. But still, the… Read more

04/25/24 4:50PM
Former co-irker has me professionally paralyz…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:13PM

Dear Prudence, I work in an IT role at a very large, well-known and selective university. My role is very “back of house,” and I have n… Read more

04/25/24 3:13PM
All the adults are bickering and no one is pa…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 4:49PM

Dear Prudence, My sister has been with “Danny” for about three years. He has a 10-year-old daughter “Valeria,” who is incredibly sn… Read more

04/25/24 4:49PM
You're not her keeper, so do what you need to…
mrsconn23
04/25/24 3:30PM

Dear Prudence, After three years, my girlfriend is finally getting over her clinical depression. She is taking her meds, talking to a thera… Read more

04/25/24 3:30PM
Renting bedding and towels
knottie1f89af4c578704f1
04/25/24 4:06AM

I'm looking at a venue that is typically a summer camp with many cabins filled with bunkbeds. They have mattresses, but require that guests … Read more

04/25/24 4:06AM
Til Death Do Us Part - A Gothic Engagement ph…
saikoamai
04/24/24 6:00PM

Hello! October 2024 Bride here! I wanted to share our cemetery engagement photos to hopefully inspire other couples to follow their creative… Read more

04/24/24 6:00PM
Tough Tuesday
charlotte989875
04/23/24 6:19PM

Where is everyone this week? Hopefully having a better day than we are!  J is sick, again. We were at the pediatrician last night and pulmo… Read more

04/23/24 6:19PM
Earth Day Monday
CharmedPam
04/22/24 6:33PM

I know Earth day is today, is it a nationally recognized holiday?How was everyone’s weekend.  I did end up getting a car, so yay - but no… Read more

04/22/24 6:33PM
Wedding Party Photos
knottie3b847a917dfae83b
04/21/24 5:01AM

Hi, the website initially let me upload images of my wedding party except for my final bridesman. I deleted the page and re-did it hoping to… Read more

04/21/24 5:01AM
Sister in law not understanding boundaries
knottie6ff848c8fd3644b1
04/20/24 12:09PM

Hi y’all I have the best FH and our life has been somewhat of a fairytale- now with planning our wedding his family is more involved in o… Read more

04/20/24 12:09PM
Taylor Friday!
charlotte989875
04/19/24 2:28PM

Anyone else listen to the album yet? I’m part way through!  Quiet day here. Running a 5k tomorrow just to see how it feels. I’m taking … Read more

04/19/24 2:28PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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