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Yeah, no. GTFO
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:37PM

My boyfriend of 15 months and I recently moved in together. Since then, I’ve discovered how incredibly picky he is about nearly every hou… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:37PM
Stand firm and don't change dresses. Her los…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:36PM

Dear Prudence, I’m in my sister-in-law’s wedding in three weeks. When she first selected her bridesmaids eight months ago, she sent all… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:36PM
Do not help her get a job at your job.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:38PM

Dear Prudence, I have been friends with another attorney for several years now. We both graduated law school about the same time and practi… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:38PM
You asked wedding guests to clean-up at your …
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:22PM

Dear Prudence, After four years together, my partner and I recently tied the knot in a small, intimate family wedding. However, despite our… Read more

05/ 2/24 5:22PM
You're not lazy, but you're not aligned.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:39PM

Dear Prudence, My wife and I are both high-income earners (top 1 percent in the U.S.) and we are both almost-millionaires. I recently quit … Read more

05/ 2/24 1:39PM
Rat tail = the new baby teeth
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:37PM

Dear Prudence, When I was in kindergarten, I had a rat tail hairstyle that my mom was very into, but the other kids made fun of me about it… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:37PM
This is where, "Why would you ask that?&…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:25PM

Dear Prudence, I lost the love of my life to homicide when I was 20. We’d been together since childhood. I’ve dated occasionally after … Read more

05/ 2/24 2:25PM
4 men...
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:41PM

Dear Prudence, A year ago, my boyfriend’s adult daughter sent me photo evidence of her father on a dating site for married men. He had us… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:41PM
Divorce and move home.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:17PM

Dear Prudence, My husband Joe and I have been having problems in our marriage for a while, even though we’ve only been married for a few … Read more

05/ 2/24 5:17PM
No one is responsible for you but you.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:28PM

Dear Prudence, Am I wrong to expect support from pregnant and new-mom friends? A few years ago, I received a series of devastating blows: a … Read more

05/ 2/24 2:28PM
You didn't see it, so there's nothing you nee…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:16PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a mom with a young son and we enjoy visiting the library together. The children’s librarian is very sweet and I get … Read more

05/ 2/24 5:16PM
Heyyy, it's PRUDIE day!
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:31PM

Good morning! How's it going?  We're going to have a gorgeous, warm day today.  We had a lovely family bike ride last night.   SSDD o… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:31PM
T-H-E-R-A-P-Y (secular)
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:25PM

Dear Prudence, My mom and I have always had a weird relationship. We’re friendly and talk often, but keep our conversations mostly surface… Read more

05/ 2/24 5:25PM
Hump Day
ei34
05/ 1/24 2:02PM

How’s everyone doing? Read more

05/ 1/24 2:02PM
It will hurt, but write-off John.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:21PM

Dear Prudence, I had a friend, “John,” with whom I was inseparable from 5th grade until junior year of college. I’ll probably never … Read more

05/ 2/24 5:21PM
Your sister has a very odd POV
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:44PM

Dear Prudence, My adult sister has been dating a man for about three years. I’ve met him twice, largely because I moved out of state a li… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:44PM
Send it back in a plastic bag with a post-it …
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:26PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I own our house while his ex lives in an apartment complex. My 8-year-old stepson spends half his time with u… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:26PM
The one-upping is annoying, but you can do so…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:40PM

Dear Prudence, How do I deal with a chronic “one-upper” at work? No matter what I (or my co-workers) say, she will immediately let us k… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:40PM
Hang out with S one on one only.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:39PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend, “S,” is engaged to another friend, “E.” S and E have been together for about two and a half years, an… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:39PM
You should have called-off the wedding.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:45PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been married for a year and a half and need help determining if it’s time to cut my losses and divorce. My marriage… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:45PM
You haven't learned to humor him in 45 years?
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:19PM

Dear Prudence, Low stakes question: My husband and I have been together for over 45 years. We have different senses of humor; I’m more dr… Read more

05/ 2/24 5:19PM
Tuesday!
charlotte989875
04/30/24 1:02PM

I couldn’t come up with any good alliterations this morning.  Things are okay here, J was sick still this weekend and had to get a second… Read more

04/30/24 1:02PM
My friend gives me FOMO
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 5:23PM

Dear Prudence, I have a friend who comes over weekly to watch Jeopardy and have dinner with my wife and me. I rarely see this person outs… Read more

05/ 2/24 5:23PM
One drink a quarter and don't talk about your…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:30PM

Dear Prudence, At my (37F) last job, there was a woman on my team who was close to my age and we got along well. We went out to happy hours… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:30PM
He's the 'other' man, but you're upset that y…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:41PM

Dear Prudence, Ten months ago, my first love and I started talking on the phone. We had not seen one another in 40 years. This has led to i… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:41PM
You can't do anything about it.
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:41PM

Dear Prudence, Four years ago, I struck up a close friendship with a neighbor just a few doors down. Our connection was instant: Our kids a… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:41PM
"I don't hire family, sorry."
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 2:29PM

Dear Prudence, I don’t know if my sister-in-law lives for drama or just wants to self-sabotage herself once she gets to a certain level o… Read more

05/ 2/24 2:29PM
"Can we have our chats before you go smo…
mrsconn23
05/ 2/24 1:42PM

Dear Prudence, How do I tell my lovely boss she stinks? She’s a smoker and while, of course, she doesn’t smoke inside the building, she… Read more

05/ 2/24 1:42PM
MOB dress color
knottie400a60e06181504f
04/30/24 5:11PM

My bridesmaids are wearing agave. My mom found a navy blue dress that’s really pretty but I’m not sure if it goes with agave and it is a… Read more

04/30/24 5:11PM
Photo Booth Trends
knottie6df00affcca2b223
04/30/24 7:33AM

As we plan for unforgettable weddings in 2024, let's dive into the world of photo booth creativity! Whether you're a couple looking for the … Read more

04/30/24 7:33AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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