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Opening Remarks On behalf of the Cxxxxx and Sxxxxxx families, welcome! We have come together to witness the marriage of Kristin Elizabeth and James Anthony. Each of you sitting in the audience has been asked here today because you have played an important role in one or both of their lives. Some of you have traveled short distances to be here, and some have traveled much further. Know that you are welcomed with love and appreciated for coming to share this important day in Kristin and Anthony’s life.
Who brings this woman with love to marry to this man?
Kristin’s Dad: Her mother and I do.
Minister Who bring this man with love to marry this woman?
Anthony’s Dad: His mother and I do.
Kristin’s Dad sits down. The flower girl and ring bearer are told they can sit down with their parents at this time.
Minister: Anthony and Kristin have selected some readings to share today.
First Reading Excerpt From: On Relationship by J. Krishnamurti Love is something that cannot be cultivated; love is not a thing to be bought by the mind...Love comes into being darkly, unknowingly, fully, when we understand this whole process of relationship. Then the mind is quiet, it does not fill the heart with the things of the mind, and therefore that which is love can come into being. Love is both personal and impersonal, is both the one and the many. It is like the flower that has perfume; you can smell it or you can pass it by. That flower is for everybody and, for the one who takes the trouble to breathe it deeply and look at it, a great delight. Second Reading The Art of a Good Marriage by Wilferd Arlan Peterson Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day. It is never going to sleep angry. It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years. It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family. It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is not looking for perfection in each other. It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humor. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal. It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
Vows Minister: Anthony and Kristin please stand facing each other and hold hands. The passage just read is an example of only a few ways to make a marriage successful, are you prepared to enter into a life long commitment of marriage?
Anthony and Kristin together: We are.
Minister: Anthony, do you take Kristin to be your lawfully wedded wife?
Anthony: I do.
Minister: Will you love, respect and honor her throughout the rest of your years?
Anthony: I will.
Minister: Kristin, do you take Anthony to be your lawfully wedded husband?
Kristin: I do.
Minister: Will you love, respect and honor him throughout the rest of your years?
Kristin: I will.
Read by the Minister, repeated individually by first Anthony and then Kristin. I promise to give you the best of myself and to ask of you no more than you can give. I promise to accept you the way you are. I fell in love with you for the qualities, abilities, and outlook on life that you have, and won't try to reshape you in a different image. I promise to respect you as a person with your own interests, desires, and needs, and to realize that those are sometimes different, but no less important than my own. I promise to keep myself open to you, to let you see through the window of my personal world into my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams. I promise to grow along with you, to be willing to face change as we both change in order to keep our relationship alive, faithful, and exciting. And finally, I promise to love you in good times and in bad, with all I have to give and all I feel inside in the only way I know how... completely and forever.
Symbolism of the wedding band Anthony and Kristin have chosen their first gift exchange as a married couple to be their wedding rings. The wedding rings are a symbol of longevity in the Marriage covenant. The circle of the rings symbolizes a never ending circle of love and commitment which you are making. Always see the best in each other and each day that you are together, let it be full of the beauty of the never ending love you have for each other through the symbols of these rings.
Exchange of Rings Read by the Minister, repeated individually by first Anthony and then Kristin.
I__________, take this ring as a meaning of a lasting life. This ring symbolizes our life together from this day on, for it is never ending and always beginning.
Sand Ceremony Minister (read while the string quartet plays "Meditation from Thais" by Massenet): There is a song that speaks of "a long and winding road" and before you met, your lives were on such a road... each going in different directions and seemingly leading to different destinations. But somewhere along the way you took a fork in the road to a destination called "love" and today you find yourselves standing together at the entrance of a new path that will join your once separate journeys into one.
Before each of you there is a container of sand. Each container represents the separate journeys you once were on. They also represent your own sets of friends and families that once were apart. I will ask that in a moment you both blend your individual container of sand together... representing the coming together of your friends and family, through your marriage, into one. And as the sand is blended into one container, your once solitary journeys will now be one of companionship, as you walk a single path together into your future. I now ask that you blend your containers of sand together. Anthony and Kristin up their individual containers of sand and blend them together. As the sand has blended together, your lives are now joined. Your friends and family are as one as well, for now you will share those who are in your lives and will walk hand-in-hand along the path of your marriage - united and strong as husband and wife.
Closing remarks We asked the Minister’s to say what she would like during this portion. She chose to read a passage from the bible talking about life and commitment.
Declaration of Marriage Minister pronounces Anthony and Kristin husband and wife and they kiss. Minister then introduces Mr. and Mrs. James Anthony Sxxxxxx to the audience.
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