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House Sitting Question
levioosa
05/18/24 1:36AM

What do you guys consider fair payment for someone house sitting (not a stranger or a house sitting service). It would involve feeding the c… Read more

05/18/24 1:36AM
Spiral Diamond and Blue Sapphire Engagement R…
knottie98d13cdb3647b213
05/18/24 5:30AM

Floral Diamond and Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring. Two leafy white gold and pave set diamond split shank bands spiral towards the floral halo… Read more

05/18/24 5:30AM
Stackable Blue Sapphire Diamond Eternity Ring…
knottie98d13cdb3647b213
05/18/24 5:28AM

Eternity band wedding ring alternates 2.5ct oval deep blue sapphires and diamonds (size 7) in 18k white gold setting. Lead time 2 weeks. Add… Read more

05/18/24 5:28AM
Shop Women 14K White Gold Ruby & Diamond …
knottie98d13cdb3647b213
05/18/24 5:26AM

Art Deco stackable eternity band wedding ring features alternating round red rubies and diamonds. Ring Size:6 Total Weight: 2.5ct. July birt… Read more

05/18/24 5:26AM
You let this go on for years to not 'make a f…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 4:47PM

Dear Prudence, I think I wrecked my husbands’ relationship with his brother and his family, and don’t know what to do now. And his brot… Read more

05/16/24 4:47PM
Go the therapy route if you're truly open to …
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:23PM

Dear Prudence, My wife of 20 years has finally turned the corner over the last year and I am too resentful to enjoy it. She’s had pretty … Read more

05/16/24 5:23PM
The ring is gone and you should probably move…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:14PM

Dear Prudence, My mother recently found a ring in my room that was very sentimental to me. She asked me where it came from. It had been giv… Read more

05/16/24 5:14PM
"What's the issue with long-term legally…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:31PM

Dear Prudence, My girlfriend’s family doesn’t get along in general on either side, and both autism and serious OCD run on both sides, a… Read more

05/16/24 5:31PM
It's time to start protecting yourself.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:14PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I have been together for almost 17 years, we met and started dating in high school. He took a promotion earli… Read more

05/16/24 5:14PM
Fri-YAY!
mrsconn23
05/17/24 1:32PM

Looks like we made it!! :) I had a lovely dinner with my friend L and her son last night.  I made butter chicken and it was so good.   … Read more

05/17/24 1:32PM
You sound obnoxious, LW.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:07PM

Dear Prudence, My late husband and I never had children, so I was very close to my brother’s four children—or I attempted to be. All of… Read more

05/16/24 5:07PM
If you're asking, you probably know you shoul…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:08PM

TW: pregnancy loss Dear Prudence, Do I have to tell my husband about my miscarriage? I am 41 years old and childless by choice. My husb… Read more

05/16/24 5:08PM
Repeatedly use the correct pronouns to his fa…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:34PM

Dear Prudence, For the past several years, I have rented a nice apartment that I have grown very attached to. My landlord “Matt” is, as… Read more

05/16/24 5:34PM
Reach out to your therapist to work this out.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:11PM

Dear Prudence, While trail running in a remote part of a national park a few years ago, I came across a man who fell off a cliff and sustai… Read more

05/16/24 5:11PM
Is it Maria or them? Be honest with yourself…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:32PM

Dear Prudence, I (38/M) began dating my girlfriend “Maria” almost three years ago, though we’ve known each other for seven years thro… Read more

05/16/24 5:32PM
Is this new 'you took my baby name'?
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:22PM

Dear Prudence, I recently got a puppy and gave him a very common name. A family member is upset because they had a pet named the same as wh… Read more

05/16/24 5:22PM
You tried and now you need to take a giant st…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:39PM

Dear Prudence, I became friends with someone pre-pandemic through a shared social group. We were in each other’s pandemic bubble and beca… Read more

05/16/24 5:39PM
Do you even hear yourself, LW?
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:25PM

Dear Prudence, I have known this guy for about a year now. We met in May of 2023 while I was swiping through Tinder looking for a causal re… Read more

05/16/24 5:25PM
Why did only you go to therapy when y'all sho…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:21PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been married for over 30 years. My husband has been retired for six months. We’ve spent the last two years working … Read more

05/16/24 5:21PM
You should eye replacing Susan rather than 'f…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:28PM

Dear Prudence, I work at a small company that draws in fantastic people. The majority of my colleagues are smart and fun, and their values … Read more

05/16/24 5:28PM
I wouldn't dog-sit for them again.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 4:50PM

Dear Prudence, My wife and I regularly dog-sit for friends when they are traveling. We enjoy having random new companions for our doggo, an… Read more

05/16/24 4:50PM
Your best 'revenge' is to be telling him what…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:18PM

Dear Prudence, My brother is marrying a woman who really doesn’t like me. The feeling is mutual. We normally just avoid each other. I rec… Read more

05/16/24 5:18PM
The 'covid divide' is real.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:17PM

Dear Prudence, I was having lunch with a gal pal, reminiscing about some old times, when we began to chat about a friend group we’d both … Read more

05/16/24 5:17PM
He clearly sobered up and saw the 'light', bu…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:36PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a millennial woman who works in the arts. I’ve hosted many public talks in my community. I recently attended a corpo… Read more

05/16/24 5:36PM
4 women in the world.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:24PM

Dear Prudence, I’m dating a much younger lady and the first couple of years were great. For some reason, she never gave me the handle for… Read more

05/16/24 5:24PM
If you're that close, can you just inform the…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:01PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a bridesmaid in two weddings in 2025. One is a close friend from high school, one is a former roommate and close frien… Read more

05/16/24 5:01PM
It's not you, it's her. Don't invite them ba…
mrsconn23
05/16/24 4:58PM

Dear Prudence, My youngest son (age 60) has been working in Germany off and on for the past 12 years. He’s been in a relationship with a … Read more

05/16/24 4:58PM
This is a letter you write and never send.
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:03PM

Dear Prudence, My brother, 49, is living a life of quiet desperation when he should be enjoying the fruits of his labor. Like me, he was bo… Read more

05/16/24 5:03PM
Friday Eve
ei34
05/16/24 3:16PM

Longest week ever I just had to put Friday in the title lol. How’s everyone? Read more

05/16/24 3:16PM
WTELMF?!
mrsconn23
05/16/24 5:30PM

Dear Prudence, My husband of 11 years and father of our two children died by suicide six years ago. He struggled with depression and untrea… Read more

05/16/24 5:30PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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