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Monday
Casadena
03/18/24 3:07PM

Kids were asleep by 7:30 last night and it was glorious. We split a bottle of wine and chatted more than we do most evenings :)  Weekend w… Read more

03/18/24 3:07PM
I think you are feeling the same things, but …
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:40PM

Dear Prudence, I’m 25, my boyfriend is 27, and we’ve been together for about a year and a half. We’ve had some ups and downs, but I k… Read more

03/14/24 4:40PM
How to send invite once a friend has passed
vzoccali
03/16/24 5:08AM

I was hoping someone has advice for how to handle this situation. One of my friends passed away suddenly right after receiving my Save the D… Read more

03/16/24 5:08AM
Never mind
short+sassy
03/18/24 3:09PM

I hope everyone had a good St. Patrick's Day weekend.  New Orleans usually does it up, but the Sat. parade was cancelled due to weather. I… Read more

03/18/24 3:09PM
Finally Friday
short+sassy
03/15/24 1:37PM

Such a stressful day!  I was hit with massive technical difficulties starting yesterday afternoon. My cell phone just stopped working.  I… Read more

03/15/24 1:37PM
How to date with IBS?
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:19PM

Dear Prudence, Last year, I (28F) developed some health problems that led to an IBS diagnosis, which as far as I can tell is medical langua… Read more

03/14/24 3:19PM
Your brother sounds like a nightmare.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:46PM

Dear Prudence, I have a family member who politicizes everything under the sun and spouts everything-phobic rhetoric almost constantly. I c… Read more

03/14/24 4:46PM
You don't have to give them to Max right away…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:58PM

Dear Prudence, My MIL’s (“Blanche”) gift-giving is a growing problem between me and my husband “Liam.” His parents live overseas,… Read more

03/14/24 3:58PM
Don't call her a liar and document, document,…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:29PM

Dear Prudence, My ex and I broke up when our daughter was a few months old. Since then, it has been hot and cold over how cooperative she i… Read more

03/14/24 4:29PM
Why I always say, 'if it's meant to be, it wi…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:00PM

Dear Prudence, I ended a relationship a decade ago with a man I truly loved because of the baggage of his first marriage. His ex had an ax … Read more

03/14/24 4:00PM
Get a new therapist.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:42PM

Dear Prudence, Just over two months ago, I was unexpectedly dumped by my boyfriend of more than a year, a man with whom I’m still deeply … Read more

03/14/24 4:42PM
Stop trying to fit the square peg in a round …
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:22PM

Dear Prudence, I (29/F, straight) met my boyfriend (28/M, straight) last summer after having a “meet cute,” and we made things official… Read more

03/14/24 3:22PM
Being 'right' may still cause you trouble at …
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:47PM

Dear Prudence, I (16F) work as a counselor at a local after-school program. It pays really well, my boss is very nice, and I enjoy getting … Read more

03/14/24 4:47PM
4 women in the world.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:17PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been dating Hannah for about eight months. I know she wants to get serious, and I’d like to get serious with her, t… Read more

03/14/24 3:17PM
Leave, and have your H give you the important…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:53PM

Dear Prudence, Can I leave my husband’s family’s group chat without being labeled a brat? Before we went on a group trip this summer, a… Read more

03/14/24 3:53PM
Cast a wide net to find 'your' people, young …
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:44PM

Dear Prudence, My social circles are a mix of folks from different backgrounds, cultures, and generations. That is, until the past few year… Read more

03/14/24 4:44PM
You may love him, but need some space for now…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:56PM

Dear Prudence, My mom recently passed away at age 60 after a years-long struggle with dementia. My dad did his best caring for her, but aft… Read more

03/14/24 3:56PM
Family/Mom Disinterested in my Wedding.
knottie8074016426995730
03/14/24 10:55PM

It seems that my family is completely disinterested in my wedding. I have been with my fiance for close to 7 years and he is amazing, we bo… Read more

03/14/24 10:55PM
Friday Eve
Casadena
03/14/24 2:15PM

In a major funk today. Weather is crappy and was up for awhile in the middle of the night with kiddos. I wish i was sleeping! Read more

03/14/24 2:15PM
If she's the 'sweetest' and nice to you, don'…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:14PM

Dear Prudence, My mother-in-law is a truly amazing person. After retiring at the top of their fields, she and my father-in-law spend their … Read more

03/14/24 4:14PM
Keep reaching out to your niece, and keep you…
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:59PM

Dear Prudence, My niece and my nephew are only five years apart, but they were raised in radically different ways. My niece was expected to… Read more

03/14/24 3:59PM
Get treatment for your anxiety disorder, LW.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:24PM

Dear Prudence, I am afraid of everything physical that normal people do outdoors: hiking, cycling, skating. I am terrified of falling, and … Read more

03/14/24 3:24PM
Don't send a TY note.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:21PM

Dear Prudence, I have an etiquette question that you are definitely going to judge me for, but here goes. I hate gifts. So. Much. I don’t… Read more

03/14/24 3:21PM
Yes, you're overthinking this.
mrsconn23
03/14/24 4:45PM

Dear Prudence, Two of my cousins, who are sisters, are having weddings this year a couple of months apart. One cousin is inviting kids, and… Read more

03/14/24 4:45PM
Who's the 'crazy' one?
mrsconn23
03/14/24 3:18PM

Dear Prudence, I went snooping in my boyfriend’s WhatsApp archived chats and came across his messages with his ex-girlfriend who he had d… Read more

03/14/24 3:18PM
Never mind
short+sassy
03/14/24 2:33PM

It's a "hurry up and wait" day at work.  I have two urgent things to do, but need info from other people before I can start. My … Read more

03/14/24 2:33PM
Wednesday
charlotte989875
03/13/24 3:07PM

I hate insurance companies. So much. Also hospital billing departments.  We still haven’t been billed for J’s birth or first hospital a… Read more

03/13/24 3:07PM
Tuesday
Casadena
03/12/24 1:54PM

Catching up on yesterday - how is everyone's week looking? Read more

03/12/24 1:54PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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